Do we need permission to change?
It seems that we as a people have stopped caring in one particular way. We've stopped caring what people think of us; and to some extent, that's a good thing. Some say it's an age thing; but I disagree. I believe that it's personal experiences that drains us to the point where we absolutely have no energy to respond to the finger pointing and constant criticism. It's not my job to make people feel good about themselves, while they tear me down under their critical eye. It's not being dismissive of others, we just need to find a place to rest from being exhausted, tired, and drained from others offering their opinions about us. What we should wear, how we should 'look', how we should act, etc. Some of these people have good intentions. Their feedback are grounded in sincerity, concern for our health and well-being. They are offering suggestions not marching orders. We love these people. because they care....